Q: Mistress, would You kindly tell us a little about your background and how you became involved in Domination?
A: Like most people who know nothing about the fetish scene I thought it was about really inflicting physical and mental abuse on one another which involved sexual acts being shared. I was totally against it. I thought the people involved in the fetish scene were mentally disturbed.
Following a bad period of my life which we all may go through e.g. divorce, bereavement etc, to my surprise I would be shopping in the supermarket and on several occasions men were asking to kiss my feet and a woman once asked me if I was into spanking. I shrugged it off with laughter thinking they were weird. One evening while out with girlfriends in a top London wine bar, I was approached by another guy asking to kiss my feet. By the end of the evening I had a ambassador and a diplomat kissing either foot. I totally loved looking down at them watching them work hard much to my surprise. I loved the attention from onlookers.
A few weeks past and this was reoccurring. I told my younger sister, Grace about it but she refused to believe me. I bet her £50 at a local bar that someone would approach me to spank them or ask to kiss my feet. I even went without make up and with my slippers on! Feeling totally out of place in my house slippers, 15 mins and 2 sips of my cocktail later, a well dressed handsome blonde man approached me and told me, I think you are very naughty. He said he was chatting me up for his friend while waiting for his wife to turn up. I asked him does he always use his friend as a chat up line.
After his wife turned up, who coincidently was from the same part of Ireland, we all started talking about fetish and they explained that the way I had perceived the fetish scene was not really true. Grace got totally scared and left. I was fascinated as I had led a sheltered life as a single mother and this was not what I had previously perceived fetish to be from the negative publicity I had heard about. I was invited back for coffee at their place. They lived in a beautiful elegant apartment filled with rubber clothes, whips, chains and all sorts of fun and freaky bondage and fetish equipment. I stayed there for 3 whole days even though I only lived round the corner! I discovered lots about the fetish scene in London, the clubs, the fairs and munches. I had never seen a Prince Albert or pierced clit. This was the beginning my fetish journey.
Since then, I have travelled all over London and Europe visiting clubs and now I am travelling all over Europe for my work. I have been featured in mainstream media in a positive light such as Marie Claire, ITV News, Film 4 and the Sunday Guardian. I am also in the process of writing my autobiography for a charitable organisation as self help book.
Q: Mistress, what advise would you give to slaves who wish to serve you?
Not to phone me with withheld telephone numbers
Not to be under the illusion that I would invite a stranger into my home as my domestic slave.
Not to write long letters about previous sessions with other Mistresses as every Mistress has a different approach to their work.
When contacting me for an appointment, they should be clear about their boundaries and importantly when they can receive calls. I do understand that some of my clients partners are not aware of their fetishes and I regard confidentiality with utmost importance.
Oh finally they must be presentable - hygiene is SO important.
Q: Mistress, what are your favourite types of session?
A: I love all types of fetish fun, the more submissive my client the better. I love playing with someone who truly enjoys working to please his Mistress in every way possible.
Q: Mistress, do you attend any clubs relating to BDSM/Fetish lifestyle?
A: When I first discovered the scene in London, I went on a bender of 6 nights a week sometimes 2 or 3 clubs a night. I was busy crafting my art for 6 years, so IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢m well known in fetish scene in London for my unique approach to BDSM. My favourite club at the moment is Club Pedestal, which is strictly for dominant females and the males that worship them. IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢m a resident Mistress there and specialise in training newbies.
Q: Mistress, What do you prefer to wear during sessions?
A:A: All depends on what mood I am in and who am playing with.
Q: Mistress, please could you describe your style of dominance?
A: Being erotic and sensual are important elements which I feel is sometimes lacking in BDSM and fetish play. My sessions are all about feminine sensuality, seduction and superiority infused together.
Q: Mistress, do you also offer other services such as phone domination, email/online, training?
A: My new website updates will be completed by June and I will be catering to all the above and more.
Q: Mistress, what are the things You most like and dislike in a slave?
A:A: I see My slaves as My pets and I reward obedience with a stroke of my whip, or the honour of kissing my feet. I do not like slaves who try to wind me up to get what they want domming from below. Good fetish etiquette is a must.
Q: Mistress, what are Your favourite gifts from a slave?
A: My favourite gift would be anything that would enhance my life or put a smile on my face.
Q: Mistress, what advice would you give to a novice who has never visited a Mistress before?
A: To look up lots of different Mistress and go through their info to ensure they cater to what they want. Finding the right Mistress is the key to enjoying the ride. Always be polite and well mannered and remember your place.
Q: Mistress, do You own any 24/7 slaves?
A: Interesting question, just got rid of one who was with me for 5 years. The position is available for a female or male, 25-40 and be able to travel on my tours around Europe.
Q: Mistress, what about those slaves looking for a long term serious commitment of slavery to You. What would be Your requirements of such a slave?
A: Intelligent and computer literate (Photoshop knowledge is a good bonus!) Good Hygiene! Also being able to afford to my high maintenance! Oh and must have time to dedicate to Me, love animals and follow instructions to the letter.
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