Interview with Aurora

Interview with Aurora

Sadistic Mistress: Tell us a bit about your background and how you got into professional domination.

Aurora: I started off practicing with guys I would talk to online and I began to enjoy it for myself. I am also a psychology student working on my bachelor’s and I believe it is great for me as a side hobby.

Sadistic Mistress: What advice would you give to submissives who are interested in serving you?

Aurora: Know their safe words and know that I like to lead, so understand what they want before they get attached.

Sadistic Mistress: Do you follow a script or specific scenario if a client brings one, or do you prefer to lead based on your own vision?

Aurora: No, I go by how each person behaves

Sadistic Mistress: What are your favorite types of sessions or kinks to explore?

Aurora: I like financial domination and obedience training

Sadistic Mistress: Do you attend or participate in any BDSM/fetish clubs, events, or munches?

Aurora: Not anymore/ too busy

Sadistic Mistress: What do you typically wear during sessions, and what outfits do your submissives most often request or respond to?

Aurora: I wear normal clothes that cover my body.

Sadistic Mistress: How would you describe your personal style of dominance (e.g., strict/sadistic, sensual/psychological, nurturing/disciplinarian, etc.)?

Aurora: psychological, emotional, sadistic, and nurturing, but I also like to test the sub’s limits and be a strict domme

Sadistic Mistress: Do you offer additional services like phone domination, video calls, online training, texting sessions, or long-distance control?

Aurora: I offer video calls and some other sessions off of the website

Sadistic Mistress: What qualities do you most value in a submissive, and what are your biggest turn-offs or pet peeves?

Aurora: obedience and when a sub pays attention. I love when subs serve only me and make my life easier so I can punish or reward them when they earn it. My pet peeves are when a sub is too needy and is disobedient.

Sadistic Mistress: What’s a song (or playlist) that gets you in a powerful, dominant headspace?

Aurora: Every rap song for me.

Sadistic Mistress: What are your favourite gifts or tributes from submissives (practical, thoughtful, or luxurious)?

Aurora: My favorite are cash gifts, shopping spree money gifts, i love when they send to me just because I’m gorgeous, whenever I’m overworked and he listened. I also love bags, shoes and clothes. Many of the things are what makes my life easier and less stressful in my busy schedule.

Sadistic Mistress: What advice would you give to someone who’s completely new to seeing a professional Dominatrix and has never booked a session before?

Aurora: Know who you are first because they’re coming to you not the other way around

Sadistic Mistress: Do you currently have any 24/7 or live-in slaves, or long-term lifestyle dynamics?

Aurora: No

Sadistic Mistress: For submissives seeking a serious, long-term commitment or ownership dynamic with you—what are your key requirements and expectations?

Aurora: My life comes first, they will accept my terms and conditions if they really want me.

Sadistic Mistress: How active are you on social media, and which platforms do you use to connect with your community (e.g., X/Twitter, OnlyFans, FetLife, Instagram, etc.)?

Aurora: very, but i need breaks. I post pretty often, but again I am pretty busy so that’s why i expect subs to be there to make my life easier.

Sadistic Mistress: How can potential submissives find more information about you, view your full rates/menu, or apply to serve?

Aurora: I have a twitter and reddit, but I’m more active on twitter.

Sadistic Mistress: How important are consent, negotiation, safe words, and aftercare in your sessions?

Aurora: They are very important for me especially for younger subs, I do push limits even though they ask for more.

Sadistic Mistress: How does Your definition of ‘Professional Dominatrix’ differ from common cultural stereotypes, particularly regarding titles like ‘Mistress’ and the nature of client interaction?

Aurora: I see it as more of who I am inside instead of the glamorized definition. A dominatrix in my opinion is more serious and has a life outside of fetish lifestyles. I am not always full time, but I know that I have more important priorities.